That's pretty strange. I've had weird dreams where I'm not even myself but someone else and all that... I've also had dreams about my boyfriend and ex boyfriend... very weird stuff. There are many different theories that people came up with to determine what are dreams? Why do they occur? Is there anything that can be learned from our dreams? Many questions about dreams but no matter what they are, or how they happen, they still have a great effect on us. Some people thing they are signs from a higher power concerning the future (de ja vu) or about choices we should make in our lives. Others believe they are thoughts that you (while awake) refuse to think of. Unconscious putting abstract thoughts into tangable things that you can relate to, like medaphors. Some people do the whole dream meanings thing, which I've tried and still intrested, for example if you dream of a snake it represents your fear. Whatever that's the symbolic dream interpretation. Others look at it as a "If I dream that I'm going down a river and I have no life support and my raft has a hole in it then it means that I'm out of control! I cant control my own life!" Which is more like the whole unconscious thinking thing. I donno. I probably didn't help at all. I say if you talked to your husband about this dream and he said it's okay, maybe you should trust your relationship more... you're questioning it. You should talk to him about it.