Update:

From what I have found out the parents of the girl are now aware that the two teens are having sex, which they are against, and while the parents have decided to allow the teens to continue to see each other - the dating rules and guidelines have greatly been changed.

BUT - what I do not understand is WHY parents get so angry at the thought of their teens having sex when they their self did the exact same thing in their teen years.... now don't get me wrong - I too do not feel that teens should be having sex just because and yet we know this is going to happen so to me the best way to deal with the matter is to educate your teens about safe sex & pregnancy... not to mention to greatly cut down on the alone time the teens may have together.

But thats me....... idk.