mouse i had unresolved issues with the significant men in my life-5 of them. it still rears it's ugly head sometimes. i'm sorry that you have hit this stumbling block in the road re mothers but it sounds like you are working thru it. what better person than to work it out with your t!  good for you. in therapy i have found that when i feel the most frustration that a solution is appearing on the horizon. so it's growth even tho it is painful.will be thinking of you and hope that this will be a triumph in your therapy. please keep us posted cause we care for you. 
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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