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Hi jennrachael05,
usually sexual orientation is just what attracts you and what gender arouses you. You can feel it, unless the way to your emotions is not blocked in a way that you cannot see (feel) yourself.
Since you mention a history of abuse it is possible that you were disconnected from yourself by the abuse. So getting connected again might maybe be an important point to get a clear vision and intuition again.
Whatever you do and whoever you have sex with, gender is by far not as important as the point to avoid more hurt in that context (if there has been in the past).
Take care (of yourself),
bluenarciss
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