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Originally Posted by jennrachael05
I've fantasized about the same sex my whole life as well as the opposite sex. I was abused in every way as a child. This year I had two encounters with other women. I considered myself bi-sexual almost all my life then now I call myself straight. Have I changed or am I kidding myself.
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I think sexuality is on a continuum. Some people are just attracted to the opposite sex, some are attracted to the same sex, and some are attracted to both.
I consider myself lesbian, but I have had relationships with men too. I went through the whole coming out experience, and decided, OK I'm gay.
Then I fell in love with a man. As it turned out, it never became sexual because he was married.
I still consider myself lesbian, even though in between significant relationships with women, I'd be dating men.
Men are much simpler emotionally than women.
I've been with my current woman partner, faithfully for 24 years. I'm a queer as a two dollar bill--but technically? Who knows?
I'm happy with how my life turned out. For all the trauma I've been through, I chose my wife/partner well.