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Originally Posted by melissa1202
Two months ago I was dx with PSTD, Since then I moved to my husbands hometown, which I really love but theres a problem. Right now all my things are in Florida and my husband truck broke down. So what makes this really intolerable is that mt father-in-law is always trying to rub me in inapproiate places and sicne I have not let him he states that I am being mean to him and that i can no longer use his truck. On top of that my mom-in-law may be bi-polar or just old but her mood swings jump from one second to the next. Yesterday I asked her if she was feeling better;she felt dizzy in the moring. She snapped my head off for asking telling me she never feels good and her nerves had had it.
I have never been one to live with anyone because I feel like I'm in the way. No place more than here, I walk on eggshells constantly its like being with my ex all over again. I feel the same now as I did then doing everything I can think of not to make them mad at me. My husband is working furiously to fix his truck but everyday till then i can not relax
I have cried more in the week i have been here than in the 6 months. I dont know what to do, help if you can.
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Yikes. Have you told your husband that his father is making sexual advances toward you, and that he won't lend you the truck unless you 'put out'?
What if you just were honest with your husband and told him that you cannot live with his parents and stay well? It's the truth, isn't it?
Do you have a therapist in the new town? What if you went back to Florida with a rented truck, packed up your things, and stayed with friends, and asked your husband to have a rental ready for you when you come back with your stuff?
Would that work?