((((( wisewoman )))))
No magic here sorry but there is a whole lot of caring and support. It sounds like hubby is getting healthier (thank you higher powers). It also sounds like you can pick out some good times in all the bad. I hope you can continue to do this.
As for the confidential thing....since when is anything that happens confidential to board members??? hmmmm....I would question that too. Sounds like somebody is playing C.M.A. = cover my *****
I am sorry about the animals. Maybe if you get rid of the cable you can have more time with the dogs.
Just trying to focus on positives.

I know that was a stretch.
Good luck and take care.
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