I don't think anyone here has to justify their relationship with their T. The truth is I have the best T of all. I know you are all jealous of our ruptures.

I am just trying to inject some humor here so we can lighten up a bit. I tell my students that in my classroom, you get what you need. I try to treat each one as an individual. I would hope that each T is the same, and that each and every one of us gets what we need. It is human nature to look at others and think that we need what they have, like when I was little and I wanted a different mom and dad; or when my son was in high school and he wanted me to have long hair not short, lol. Or, you might want the husband who makes a million dollars! I think looking at other therapeutic relationships is in a similar category because it is such an intimate relationship.

By the way, recently I referred to our ruptures and T said, "I think we have just about as many fights as we both can handle." LOLOL

So, it's all okay. We have so many diverse and beautiful relationships to talk about. It would be a truly boring board if they were all the same.

Peace out friends.