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Old Mar 09, 2009, 07:09 AM
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It hurt, and it was the wrong guy. I still have pain, but I think that's another issue. As for the meds, they reduce my sex drive, and I HATE IT! I've lost a great deal of my sex drive in the last several years, but that may be because I'm soon to enter menopause, if I haven't already. I hope the gyno can give me something to get my sex drive back up, because I want it mentally, but not so much physically, and orgasms are barely there.

But, back on topic, when you have your first time, make sure the guy takes his time and insist on all the foreplay you need. I've read and heard some good advice (from the wonderful Dr. Ruth, among others) that losing your virginity can be easier if you're aroused and well-lubricated.
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