(((((( ariesmars ))))))
I truly feel for you.
There are social training sessions available for people with AS, from what I have been reading on the internet. I'm considering finding a place where I can go to get some help. Even though I've adapted a lot on my own, social outings continue to be a struggle for me and leave me exhausted much of the time.
I found this website:
http://www.grasp.org/
It's the Global and Regional Asperger Syndrome Partnership. Seems to have a lot of great information. I'm sure you could find a support group or social training classes, if you choose to go that route.
Good luck and remember -
you're not alone!