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Old Oct 03, 2003, 12:03 PM
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Hey Foolish:
I've been thinking about you. Glad you're okay, relatively speaking.

I'm not too bad.

We've talked a bit about jobs on Chat, so I know that you feel that now is not the right time for that. But still... I don't know how I would get through life if I didn't make it point-to-point for myself. I always set up some small goal... and that's what I'm aiming for. And that's the part that my boyfriend is the most frustrated about for himself - he knows that having goals would really help him, but he doesn't know what kind of goals he can set for himself without risking to fall flat on his face, so he doesn't set any. Is that where you are about goals? I know that I can give all the advice in the world, but you aren't asking for it so I won't. But if you want to talk about setting goals, I'd be happy to work with you on them. Honestly, I would be depressed too if I didn't set my mind to achieve something, however little it may be, like taking a class, training to run or bike a certain distance, planning a vacation, future dinner plans with a friend, a project at home, whatever. Also having pets really make a difference in my life.

I'm thinking about you - and I'm your friend. If anyone is an intruder here - it's me. But that has nothing to do with how everyone else sees us -- feeling like an intruder is mostly in one's head. And I don't feel that way.

Erin sucks. Time to move on to someone who deserves you.

We are ALL going to be a-ok!
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