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Originally Posted by Shelle
Thanks for the blessings, if you post a problem I am going to give my opinion. I still think everything I said is true. I don't believe is does kids any good to be around someone who resents them the marriage or who is detached - A symptom of PTSD, do you know what PTSD is and does to a person? and doesnt want to be there She wants to be here, the detachment is a form of self defense that she can't control, and her therapy will help with that. She is quite happy at home, and with the exception of one thing, our lives are normal.. So thats my opinion. You don't have to agree with me, but if you post a problem publicly and invite others to give opinions they certainly will. So take what you like and leave the rest.  |
How can you give an uninformed opinion? You aren't here, and as I have stated, she stayed because she does love us. She doesn't resent us, or she wouldn't be here...hello? How about I let her post? Maybe then you'll believe in what has happened? This is a bit silly...
Again, she has her own mind, I did not force her, I didn't put a gun to her head, I did nothing to "make" her stay. She decided on her own to be with us, because she loves us.
Yes it's a public forum, and yes you can give opinions, but when they are uninformed, it makes no sense to even bother, imho.
I hope
you can learn something from this, that not everyone just gives up on love, marriage, and their family because they have a moment of extreme anger. Wow, if everyone did that, how many 1st fights in a marriage would end up in divorce? Some ppl take marriage seriously, and their vows seriously, and again, some just get mad, have a fight, say things they don't mean, and "kiss and make up". Take from it what you will, but sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, and everything here is fine.
Again, take care and God bless!