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Well, I am not meeting a T at the moment, and I am not seeking therapy right now, but if I should one day start meeting a T again, I am determined to politely but distinctly give a feedback if a T should behave inappropriately, respectlessly or generally in a way that I wished he would not.
An open-minded T that really cares about feedback and is still able to learn will not be bothered. And a T that rejects feedback... Well, I think we would not be able to work together.
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It is the way it is. I can't change that. But there might be a way to change how I react.
(Meanwhile I found out, there are such ways.)
To cope or not to cope - that is the question.
Healing comes from within. As I see it, the trick is to find the lost way back to safe home. Wherever I am, whatever happens to me, my safe home is always with me.
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