Minime, I'm sorry things are so hard now. I hope your PA and your EMDR T are able to communicate. Sometimes EMDR can trigger flashbacks so EMDR practitioners always proceed with caution.

It is scary when we see our T's eyes change. Sometimes if we tell them what we saw in their eyes, they can explain better what they were feeling and we can be reassured. Maybe frustration in your T's eyes was also caring and concern.

Take care.