Ok, we may have gotten off on the wrong foot here...and I apologise. I didn't in anyway coerce my wife into saying anything, I can't even find it in my original post where I said that... Also, lol, it's funny you should say that she is saying what I need to hear, because we discussed that very scenerio, I asked her to please not tell me what I want to hear, but what she wanted and needed to say. I am not forcing anything.

I know I have asked you a few times if you know anything about PTSD...and I will again? Do you? If not, you won't see the correlation between what happened, my Panic/Axiety Disorder, and the blow up. I have since fixed my problem in 5 sessions of therapy, and actually the anger issuse was fixed already.

I am not trying to make this a black or white thing, and yes you have your right to your opinion, but really, there's nothing that I wouldn't do for her, including leaving, if that's what she wanted, and she knows that. No one is miserable, no one is forced, and everything is fine. I guess I was defending this because I know what PTSD and my issuses have done to us, and if you haven't been through them, and don't know what's up, then really, how can you comment on it? I don't comment on things I don't know about, coz I can't, it would make no sense. Anyway, this issue is closed with me, my wife and I are fine. You may choose what you want to belive, that's cool, but the truth is what I have said. I am done, I'm off this thread. Take care.