I sensed that my T and I were similar in many ways, but different in others. I think that we were both gentle types, but that he didn't have issues with self-esteem and shyness, as I have had. I don't think he would have been able to help me with some of that if he had the same problems. I would sense some similarities... an appreciation of nature and animals, wanting to help others...but I think he was more grounded and realistic in his approach and I've always been a dreamer. Whatever it was, it made for a good balance between us.