Hi Locust,

Acceptance - to put it plain & simple. The acceptance phase is the mostchallenging, regardless of what the issue is. Challenging because we have other ideals in mind. We don't want to accept the reality. We fight it. We try everything we can think of to avoid feeling so flawed.

The fact is that when we accept the flaw, no longer repress or deny it, a heavy burden is lifted from our shoulders instantly! That is when we begin to see others honestly. Friendship and love are much easier to find when you aren't carrying that burden anymore. Acceptance is more rewarding than I can express. Honestly !

Personally, I am still struggling with acceptance. I have finally accepted certain parts of myself (that I found absolutely horrible and embarassing- my epilepsy and traumatic brain injury). Despite this discovery, accepting other painful experiences I've had isn't easy.

Hope that helps answer your Q !
Shez