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Old Mar 11, 2009, 12:42 AM
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It's very important to talk to your T about this, noticing her responding to you in a different way and how you feel about it.

Sometimes my T gets into this 'reframing' mode and it feels like she's disagreeing with me when she's offering me other perspectives, other ways of looking at what I'm talking about. Sometimes I am receptive to this and other times, many times , I react strongly because it feels like she'd telling me I'm full of it or I'm stupid. So, we talk about that and it's all helpful