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Mar 11, 2009, 04:30 AM
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Member Since: Feb 2009
Posts: 14
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Originally Posted by ihateit
Sher, as I remember, didn't have an affair, with anyone, it was a guy who kept bothering her and Rek didn't bother to find out the truth, albeit Sher should have told him what was up, both failed at communicating. If one can't handle people having friends, be it a same sex or not, something is wrong, altho again, this situation was a little diff and was handled wrong.
As well, I was responding to the fact if you love someone, you take care of them in their down times, if needed...not say, why am I paying the rent and the utilities, etc., which I guess in essence would say to me you didn't love them in the first place. Guess it sounds to me like this relationship was doomed from the get go...*shrug* 
As for video games...LOL, have you not heard of EQ, EQII and WoW, and now War Hammer, and LoTRO? Literally millions of people play these, WoW (World of Warcraft) alone has over 1 million people who play. It's an addiction just like any other, altho it's easier to quit, people admit to having withdrawls when they do quit...you get that "good" feeling, like when you smoke a cig, or take that drink.
I'll let it rest, as you say, it's over, and I agree, they should just both move on. |
Like I have said before I told her to tell me when he talked to her, as did her uncle if he tried to talk to her she was supposed to tell me so I could tell him to leave her alone and she even told me in the car the night we got back together that she would tell him herself but she never did and I swear that to you with my life. he even told me that at one point she told him that she was single and just living with me. who am I to believe? sher or him? since sher always lies to me. it's hard to believe her once she instilled that mistrust with me and that's why no matter how much I love/loved her I could never really know if she's telling the truth. Have you ever had someone lie to you for no reason at all? Just because they think you will get mad or because they are trying to cover something else up with another lie?
Btw there is a big difference in a guy friend and guy that's a friend and wants to hook up and as a girl if you don't understand the difference then something's wrong. it's not rocket science and I'm pretty sure when a guy knows you have a boyfriend and you have never met him in person and it's been only a few days since you have met him online and he's asking you to hang out with him. That means he's not a friend at all and because he's a guy and knows sher was unhappy he probably comforted her with a bunch of sweet nothings which was all a plan to get in her pants as I told her from the get go... Maybe you all think I'm going over the edge but like she said he brought up the sex which is a sign he's no longer a friend, especially if you're seeing someone…
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