It seems that having some connection, something very important to care about, helps with being quite conscious of each other. For us it was the children. In the beginning of realisation there were some really bad fights and accusations that the children were not being looked after properly. The born body threatened to kill herself if her children were ever hurt by any of us. At the time she didn‘t realise how many she was ‘speaking‘ to, she just knew something was going on and that it might effect her children. I think we all came to some understanding about this, and in the process became more aware of each other. The born body was still in denial, she thought she was going crazy but she was very determined to protect her children from whatever ‘It’ was.