I agree 100% - and my husband and I have talked about this many times over the last few years with no resolution at hand, hence why I am posting about it here... so I can get some relief for myself since it seems that my husband has done nothing but become a very one sided angry man that hates life, work and all that comes with it - people are jerks with in his mind that exist with out caring for others.

I just have to be honest and say that he is finally getting on my nerves with all his complaining and I do not know how much more I can take or want to take of it........ *sigh*rhapsody, maybe if you're not already doing this, you would benefit from talking with a therapist about your relationship with your hubby. if nothing else you will be getting help for youself and you deserve to do that for yourself. you are of worth and value, and this negativity is affecting you. i hope you'll consider this. i know for me seeing a t really helped me unload all the stuff i stuffed. it released the pressure in the pressure cooker. please let us know what u decide to do. you matter to us. i'll listen too if you need to rant. at least your'e getting it out.

(p.s. - note: this behavior has been going on for two years straight)