so what is the protocol for when they speread my fathers ashes next month. and we dont have the money to go to alabama. someday on the wind he will come here though we wont recognize it. how many cremonies does it take to say good bye ? his blood runs in our viens so we will never lose him here just his voice we miss him forever all our days already and the days we havent spent yet We had his memorial on his birthday in TX and the Union sent the biggest rubber plant and flowers we brought back north and put in the yard. oooopps! rambling