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Mar 11, 2009, 03:42 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: OKC
Posts: 143
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Hey there - I completely understand. What it looks to me like is that he simply cannot or will not make up his mind as to what he wants, and seems to be playing you. I really think that you are better off without him, and to have him constantly give you mixed signals must be heartbreaking and humiliating.
It is confusing that he says something about marriage and then is with someone else, which is why I can't help but think this is all sweet-talk so he can get a little nookie on the side.
I'm so sorry about all of this. It seems that some people don't grow out of their ways, or even learn from experiences. But you gotta know that you are worth more than this guy who is just stringing you along only to break your heart again. I would stop all contact with him, and if he really wants to be friends he'll understand that you can't see him for a while.
I know what it's like to be lonely, but I'd rather be alone than feeling like I'm being used. Been there - will never do it again. 
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