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Originally Posted by melissa1202
Two months ago I was dx with PSTD, Since then I moved to my husbands hometown, which I really love but theres a problem. Right now all my things are in Florida and my husband truck broke down. So what makes this really intolerable is that mt father-in-law is always trying to rub me in inapproiate places and sicne I have not let him he states that I am being mean to him and that i can no longer use his truck. On top of that my mom-in-law may be bi-polar or just old but her mood swings jump from one second to the next. Yesterday I asked her if she was feeling better;she felt dizzy in the moring. She snapped my head off for asking telling me she never feels good and her nerves had had it.
I have never been one to live with anyone because I feel like I'm in the way. No place more than here, I walk on eggshells constantly its like being with my ex all over again. I feel the same now as I did then doing everything I can think of not to make them mad at me. My husband is working furiously to fix his truck but everyday till then i can not relax
I have cried more in the week i have been here than in the 6 months. I dont know what to do, help if you can.
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I'm very sorry about your terrible situation. Try to avoid your father-in-law, if at all possible. Just stay away from him. Maybe avoid eye contact, hurry by him, only necessary conversation--I'm just brainstorming here; these things may or may not work in your situation. But if he continues, I think you should speak with someone. I know there are agencies that help people in situations like yours. Maybe your local women's shelter will have the right contacts. Your father-in-law SHOULD know that his conduct is wrong and is affecting you greatly. Maybe avoiding your husband's parents altogether may not be a bad idea.
--Sunnye