((( HUGS ))) ~ ~ ((( HUGS )))

I wish I could tell you that it will get better, but I have been married to the same man for the last 23 years and he sounds a lot like your bf and our relationship has become just like yours and time has not made it any better.

If you are able to I would suggest that you move on with someone that shares more of your ideals and zest for life... and while the change will hurt right now I promise it will feel better in the long run - when you meet a man that gives as much as he takes from a relationship... Your True Soul Mate.