teary,
you have got more patience than I would--I'd tell the kid to knock it off, they are my clothes, then I'd change locks...
She is over stepping boundaries and invading "your space."

My rant over...

Is there anything in particular that happened or did things kind of pile up?
Ya know sometimes it's all right to get in a pissy mood and pamper yourself out of it.
Do you have anything special that you like to do and could treat yourself to it?

Peace and Power,
Cap