teary me!

I wouldn't be too happy with someone presuming that they can do whatever they like, either. Are you a teenager or adult?

If a teen, blame your parents. Tell her that they don't want your clothes getting dirty so fast, and ho you had to listen to some long story about the cost of water, detergent, and the effect on environment, etc. Blah, blah, blah. So, you don't push that issue with them.

If you're an adult, don't allow her to come inside. Say that you have other things going on, you're busy. Or you may tell her she can come in but tell her in advance not to expect to wear your clothes. Explain that they're personal to you, and you just don't feel comfortable with her wearing them.

Best wishes to you hon!
Shez