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Old Mar 13, 2009, 07:50 PM
Anonymous29412
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((coconut))))))))))))))))))))))))

I agree with what others have said....T understands how scary it is for you to connect, he feels sad that you have to feel that way, and he is going to be patient and will be there when you are ready.

It was very, very, very hard for me to trust my T. I was POSITIVE that something horrible would happen if I allowed myself to open up, be vulnerable, and connect with him. It was literally terrifying. T was so, so, so, so patient. He waited until I was ready, and I finally did start taking baby steps towards connecting.

Now I feel safe, and wouldn't trade the connection for anything. It wasn't easy.

Be gentle with you. Breathe. You will make it through this...don't beat yourself up for being scared. It's okay, and understandable, and you are already taking baby steps just by showing up. Give yourself the time and understanding that T is giving you.