I emailed my T a lot last week when I was, as Miss C so accurately described,flooding. My T has not set strict boundaries with me even though I had repeatedly asked for them. For a long time I fretted over when to email and when not to. I'm getting a little better at not fretting too long. At this point I figure if I am crossing a boundary, she has a responsibility to tell me. She is not like others in my life who don't have the ability to tell people when they are asking too much of them. I've repeatedly asked her to indentify the boundaries so I can play by her rules. Instead much to my discomfort, she seems to have let me set them. Now its her responsibility to say when enough is enough.