Thank you , i appreciate your honesty . I do understand why she did what she did , as far as reporting it the the supervisor to some extent. And although i wasnt aware of any rule about not being in the building alone , i dont see any problem with it . I agree that it could be potentially a bad situation , and since it has never come up before , i just didnt give it much thought. And in no way do i feel like this rule was specifically directed towards me , i am sure that there is a very valid reason for having such a rule.
I guess my issue is more of the fact that she told me herself that she never felt threatened by me , didnt have the idea in any way that i had any intention of hurting her , and actually thought the banter back and forth was pretty funny , and allowed it to go on for so long for that reason. And that she felt like she was dealing with a smart aleck type teenager at the time, even stated that it reminded her of times with her own children , when they were younger . I dont understand the contradiction. And this was stated to me on the 10th when i was sitting there in her office!