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Originally Posted by ihateit
Ok, you've seen my quotes. My wife is anti-social, doesn't like ppl, and I have no clue how I even got close to her. She, imho, was out of my league, but I gave it a shot and we did really hit it off. The problems we have are psychological (we both have one form of anxiety DX'd, mine's diff, by far from hers, but we both have our problems). I feel your B/F does have some psychological problems as well (growing up in a home like that would set bells off in any therapist). I would, if you want this relationship to last and be ok, encourage him to go to a T. Bascially, the thing I hate to do but have done, go see a therapist or I'm outta here.
If he keeps insisting there is nothing wrong with him, I wouldn't stay, you have a long full life ahead of you, you're not tied by marriage (not that I am "tied", I really truly love my wife as much if not more than the day we got married).
God bless and GL!  |
Its good to know that there are people out there that understand the situation that I am in. It helps to know that this is coming from a male persective also, so thank you
. This am we had one of those "long talks" that he says happens wayyy tooo often. Basically what I got from it is that we should send each other our schedules via eamail, and then he will compare them and find time when we can spend together. He says that a lot of couples do that (how would he know since he never goes anywhere) and that it is totally normal. Because I am too "high maintenence" he has decided that 3 days out the week is an appropriate amount of time to spend together (2 out of those 3 days my daughter is with us and she really keeps me occupied). I basically have come to the fact that he just doesn't want to be bothered with me. Maybe he needs someone more like himself, low maintence, isolated and anit social. I told him that, along with the fact that maybe it is I that cannot give him what he needs.
He said that we were gonna have this same talk when he got home and again on thurs. Seems to me that he's being cold, rigid and insensitive. What do you guys think?