I am new here and not exactly sure how this works yet, so forgive me if i don't do this right. i don't have anyone else to talk to no one understands! they all keep lecturing me about eating right and going to the gym. problem is that none of that makes any sense in my head. but my question is how do you make your husband understand and be less frustrated? i really don't mean to irritate any one, but i can't just fix this.