When I met my BF he told me that he used to spend like 8 hrs a day online playing World Of Warcraft. Then he said he gave it up about a year before we got together.......HOWEVER...........now he has a serious internet porn addiction. The only time we make love is when I initiate it. I have to do lots of "things" to get him in the mood. It has been over 11 days since we made love. Last night, I, ofcourse initiated it, and completed the "thing" he needs. When the actual sex happenend, it was over in like 5 mins with him having an orgasim and not me. Then he tells me to go get my toy, rolls over and starts snoring. He would rather go on to all these teen bondage sites to satisy himself, even when I'm home. So hunny, watch for this. I don't want it to get worse for you like what I'm dealing with. I sympathesize with you about feeling like you're competeing against the game, because I am competing against these sites. Go to therapy to see if there is an underlying reasin to his addiction. EITHER WAY, DONT JUST SIT BACK, I don't want to see you hurt like me. HUGS & B. O. LUCK HUNNY