He's like a little wizard. He's this totally nerdy guy, who dresses poorly and seems like the absent minded professor.

But he's so knowledgeable. He takes great notes, and doesn't forget a thing, even though sometimes I think he falls asleep in my session.

He's great at completely 'getting' my material and putting it together in such a way I get these great zaps of insight.

I'm doing excellent work with him.

I only worked with a T one other time, with a woman, who was a Sufi back in the eighties. She used to sit there, this wonderful open face, with soft eyes and long, gray hair and open her arms and just beam love at me.

When I couldn't cry, she would sometimes cry for me.

It was wonderful. And the right medicine for the time. If I hadn't worked with her so well years ago, I wouldn't have had the healthy marriage of 24 years that I've enjoyed so long.