Frankly, I am disappointed and dismayed that this thread was necessary. Not that I feel I'm perfect nor that I've never made an unhelpful comment, but I can't understand all this hubub at all.

We have a wonderful group of people here. Why we are wasting energy getting bogged down in all this nonsense is beyond me. Sorry for the rant. However, this in-fighting is getting on my last nerve, as the saying goes. I'm not taking sides or criticizing anybody. I'm saying let's all just kiss and make up and get back to what this place is all about: caring, non-judgemental support.