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Originally Posted by jen_9_crimes
 i really cant stand my older brother he is such an asshole and when he starts being one i tell him off and he gets mad and starts punching me over and over well i always throw something at him because i can hurt him worse that way instead of punching him. well my dad started yelling at me for throwing something at the mother ****er! my dad is really starting to bug me! but joe gets me so mad i swear if i could i would kill him thats how much i hate him! he never gets in trouble i always do im so sick of the **** so i told my mom and all she said was ill handle it when i get home and thats ******** because all she will do when she gets home is her ****ing homework shes getting a higher degree! the only people that never make me mad everyday is my oldest bro and his wife but they dont do **** they never clean up and my mom will fuss and then they usually make me clean! im really sick of it!!! all of it! what should i do should i move out??? im so sick of being pissed off everyday! |
think about this as a challenge in your life and try to work it out....you will grow stronger then....I know it's easy to say....but that's true....
try to breath deeply when your brother is getting to your nerve and stop talking to him....try to think about something else rather than getting into fight with him....
trust me I had this kind of situation when I was a teenager with my older sister....we weren't getting along at all...we were always fighting...it was bad...even now that we are older we do that too....we are not living in the same country...she's living in Europe and I'm in America, but still when we talk on the phone even we get into trouble.....hehehe...that's funny....but I still love her so much....she's my blood and I want all the good things for her and her family
try to cover all the hate with love....you can do it....because lots of other people did it....
you got to learn that in future you will have other people in your life who can piss you off, they can be so unreasonable....trust me....you will get into the job and you will do all your best, then somebody over there would get all the credit and piss you off and your managers will back him up.....so take this opportunity here at your parents home to learn how to deal with your anger and the situation.....try to be cool....and don't complain....stay away from him....
and that's bad if you say you want to kill him....I'm sure you won't do such a thing....
god bless you
Marjan