hear, hear!! I say get out if you can........even if you can go somewhere for a little while to get some breathing space....

It sounds horrific and at a point where neither of you is making sense........very abusive......very negative and damaging.

Save your relationship and save yourself.........your safety, both physically and mentally is your priority........maybe a good T to talk to in the future would help......

Be kind to yourself and your brother so you live with no regrets........concentrate on YOU........and then try again.

Good luck, sweetie.......I feel for you......