Simcha, it would be nice to know I could cry is I wanted to. Still working on that--I still think it is funny how many of us want to be able to cry. You spend a childhood learning to control something, then have to spend adulthood relearning how not to control it.

BTW...if I ever cry in therapy I hope the the heck my T knows enough to ignore it. How brutal would it be to have to talk about why you cried. Ouch!