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It sound like you were able to communicate your insights, and that is an excellent starting point.

I completely understand what you mean about not wanting to know anything about your T. I don't want to know anything about my T, except I haven't been able to tell her that I feel that way because I don't want to seem 'rude' or uncaring.
SO I admire your ability to be so honest about your needs.

I hope you are able to talk to T about this in person, and allow her the opportunity to make better decisions. From what I've read here, a lot of therapeutic growth can occur from these issues or 'ruptures'.

It is really scary to trust when we've been hurt before........

I want to encourage you to trust your instincts to know whether you should give this T another chance or try to find someone else.
take care.....