Dear Bellax3,
I know one thing, that if I were ever in a foxhole, I'd want someone like you in there with me...
You are a compassionate, caring person.
If you follow your heart, you might do good things for others, and for yourself.
I hope this young person gets some clarification on what she is going through, and if it's serious, well, early detection is always better.
Peace and Courage,
Nightbird
xoxo