(((EF))) you have given this much good thought. now that you've explained a little more i can totally understand why you feel she is crossing boundaries she assured you she would be sensitive with, with you. if it were me, mind u, i'd bring it up in my next session if you are comfortable doing so. i'd write down the points i don't want to miss...like the email, tmi. this should not be so difficult for her. i would hold her to her agreement, no excuses, and ask her what you can expect from her henceforth. then you write out a contract of what you all agree on and have her sign it. if you don't like her answer, then walk.
there are lots of good therapists out there that would get your needs met in a new york minute. i'm so sorry you have had some trust issues with t's . there are bozos out there that charge clients good money. that is unfortunate that you've run into a few of them in your quest to help yourself. hold your head high and assert your rights.