Thanks ktgirl,

It is interesting that I do have trust issues anyway, and I have come a long way with that with regular people. I even have some friends and a cool neighbor who is like a friend ( I am the old lady, lol) But now I see I really do have trust issues with T's because of what happened to me.
I did email her and told her I decided to see her tomorrow. It is spring break for me and I scheduled extra session this week and next so she could help me on my statement to the APA licensing board concerning my 1st T and a speech I am doing on prevention of child abuse. And now we have "this" issue too.

But I am sure we can work it out, but I think this has set my trust back some though. But I will tell her again that I want NO disclosure and If she wants to be my T, she will have to go by MY boundaries too.

Thank you so much for your support and encouragement ktgirl! ;-)