Thanks Earthmama for your story, you sure understand where I am coming from. I am going to see her tomorrow and I will set my boundaries again with her. Back when I was with my unethical T, it felt good all the disclosures, it made me feel special, but now in hindsight, I see how it hurt me badly. So is she wants to work with me I need her to be extra careful with me. I think it will work out. Thanks again "motherearth" ;-)