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Originally Posted by chaotic13
Simcha, it would be nice to know I could cry is I wanted to. Still working on that--I still think it is funny how many of us want to be able to cry. You spend a childhood learning to control something, then have to spend adulthood relearning how not to control it.
BTW...if I ever cry in therapy I hope the the heck my T knows enough to ignore it. How brutal would it be to have to talk about why you cried. Ouch!
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My T didn't mention it, but he did notice it and kept me about ten minutes after session.
I'm glad my T didn't mention it. I think something so obvious doesn't need mentioning really
. I probably would have been pissed if he mentioned it.
My T knows better. I think asking why should be done only if it's not obvious--like maybe you start to cry right at the beginning of session and don't say what's wrong. I think they know what's wrong in most cases, and to ask why would feel like a kick in the stomach.