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Originally Posted by deliquesce
second the idea to go to a bra fitting - i have my mum to turn to, but some things i really prefer asking a stranger about.
i think confronting a teacher about their inappropriate behaviour can be quite a scary thing to do. heck, i'm 24 and at college, and i find it uncomfortable speaking up to authority figures who want to sell me their bull about how i should be looking/acting.
if i was at high school, i would probably have spoken to one of the teachers i was close to, and asked them what to do.
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That may be the problem because I am close to this teacher. Secondly, he is a male. He's very comfortable with everything because he and his students are so close. No one really sees him as a teacher at all. He talks to his students as if they were family and treats us as such, even if that includes lewd or inapropriate comments. In the end he seems to justify it all as it being his 'wisdom'. And everyone goes along with it.
I haven't ever been able to go alond with any authourity figures or any younger people as well. There was a little kid (about 6 or 7) who used to always try to touch me and I didn't know how to approach it. I didn't say "No" or anything but I'd move his hand. I'd do the same if it was someone my age or someone older. I don't know why.