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Mar 16, 2009, 02:45 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Colorado
Posts: 9,092
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hey there,  to PC 
Relationship stuff can be really tough. Dealing with parents can be just as tough or even harder.
For the parents, I'm sorry they fight alot, try to keep reminding yourself that it is in no way your fault and what they say is NOT always true. Just because THEY say you might not make it - that's not right for them to say, how can they know? Do they have a future reading device? Parents often do things to try to help their children but make mistakes. They also have emotions too, which can negatively effect us in so many ways.
This girl, maybe you should tell her that it's not her job to "make you happy". I have major depressive disorder, and have made clear to my bf that it is NOT his job to make me happy. He is sad when I'm sad, because he loves me, but he also realizes that it is not his fault and that sometimes I need a hug even if I don't smile right after.
many hugs to you, if that's ok and I hope you feel better.
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