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Originally Posted by horsecab
So let me get this straight. Is this guy harrassing young women? If so he needs help or arrested. Is this guy staring without awareness of his behavior, if so he needs help. How young are the women, ten years younger? Not big thing to want attention from them, my dad was ten years older than my mom, my brother is 14 years older than his wife. Are you guys being honest with yourself? Tell me you don't look at a young girl especially when she is wearing next to nothing. If one gives me something to look at, damn right I'll look. I love beauty and can't resist such a sight, but I try not to let her catch me looking, and if she does she usually smiles considering it a compliment, (and I'm 50). If your friend doesn't take into consideration their reaction to him, he needs help. If it's a matter of young women wearing next to nothing and loving the attention they get, (which many seem to do) but want to pick who looks at them and who doesn't, sorry, it doesn't work that way. Tell the women to put some more clothes on if they don't want his attention. A man ANY AGE staring at a woman like an obsession would freak out any woman, not just an older man.  |
Looking is expected. It's his intense staring and the way he looks them over. I mentioned he lives in a group home. He is not allowed out except with my or other approved people. He's missing about 30 years where he was steadily bombed by booze and drugs and taking a permanent toll. And I know for a fact he has enough money to buy whatever he wants. Not a millionaire, but better than half way there. Part of the problem is he lives in a group home with recovering and not recovering booze and drug addicts and others who except for assets would be homeless on the streets. And I am limited to about 6 hours taking him on outings to the real world. Actually, he is very polite except for this one matter of obviously undressing them with his eyes. Mentally, he is locked into being a teen yet. (off drugs and booze nearly 17 years.)
I add I have turned down his offers to get new tires for my car and a new stereo. My tires are fine and I don't need the distraction of a complex stereo.