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Old Mar 16, 2009, 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted by exoticflower View Post
(((Ria))) I haven't always had courage, but sometimes well you just have to stand up for yourself.

I am still feeling disconnected from her today after our session. I don't think she liked me telling her how to do therapy. I think she understands, but then I think she is missing some of the point. Today her electric was out and she was running just a little behind, and she wondered if that was telling me too much info. I am fine with that kind of info, it is the info about your personal self. I said I might relax some later about this, but after being abused professionally by a T, I would just prefer no disclosure. What is it with T's who want to talk about themselves???
I told her that I know we can't be friends, but I don't want to want to be friends with her if I find out we have a lot in common.
I am thinking of looking for another T, I just don't feel good about today, there is something really bothering me about this.
You give me hope that someday....just someday.....

And about your T, perhaps you should talk to her about how you are considering finding a new T and see where that conversation takes you....
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