i talked to my sister tonight and we were talking about therapy, and i told her i had an inner child who is basically her. i think she was a bit tripped out as well, but we were laughing about it too. i have to say that we have come a long way. my sis can still do pretty hurtful things but she can be pretty cool too. and she's totally apologized for all the childhood crap and is working on her stuff. we're not too consistent yet, but it certainly is a whole lot better than when we were younger.