As we all know, which is why this post was started I believe, it is better to face things than avoid, but this is where the struggle comes in. It's not as easy as saying, "well, since it's better, I'll just do it." At least not for most.

While I don't struggle with missing appointments, etc., I loathe conflict. I have another post about it where Sannah really helped me with this...I will locate it and post the link, see if it offers anything useful for you.